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How do you show your beloved that you love them?
What special things do you do for your partner or spouse to make their day go smoother, to make them feel relaxed and special?
What do you do day in and day out for your children because you love them and want them to be happy?
Take a minute and make a short list – it doesn’t take long. I’m sure you will think of many things immediately – but just list a few. A few are all that is necessary.
Reread your list. Feel the glow that you get from letting the people you love know that they are loved.
Now answer this: when was the last time you did any one of those things just for yourself?
In order to love others fully, you must first love yourself. If you aren’t taking care of your own self as Beloved, start right now. Think of it as a gift of love to those others who are beloved to you, because it allows your understanding of love to expand. Pick something off the list you just made and do it for yourself. Today.
Wylde Women’s Wisdom:
As we understand the impersonal nature of the Law of Cause and Effect we can CHOOSE to take more responsibility for what we have created in our lives. The more responsibility we take, the less likely we are to think that forces outside ourselves are limiting or controlling our lives. Ultimately, life is about choices. There is no destiny, only our unlimited ability to choose. Katherine Q. Revoir